Chapter 15

Chapter 15

                             Forgiveness. 

     Why do We ReLive Our Worst Moments

                  Over and Over and Over

            Instead of Letting Them Go?

We Won't Rest Until We've Made Sure They

  Feel as Badly as They've Made US Feel.

   💯 Look….this is a HARD One for Me Too….

    But We KNOW There is Something to This….

                               Because….

       Whatever Happened…….Happened. 

      Holding On Will Not Change this Fact.

It Will Just Keep the Negative Feelings from

                          the Past Alive.  

      Keeping You a Prisoner of Your Pain.

“The Moment You Decide to Forgive and Let Your Negative Feelings Melt Away, You are on the Road to Freedom “

It is All About Putting Your Desire to Feel Good,

                                BEFORE

                Your Desire to BE RIGHT.

                          💥WOW💥

It's About Taking Responsibility for Your Own

                            Happiness….

                Instead of PRETENDING….

            It's in Somebody Else's Hands.

                Holding on to Resentment

                   is Like Taking Poison…

                                  And

             Waiting for Your Enemies to Die.

               Now that SOUNDS So Easy…..

                            But it is Not.

                                 But

     Don't Fall Prey to the False Belief that

  Forgiving Someone is Letting Them Off the

                             Hook. (🙋‍♀️)

            When You Forgive Someone,

     You Let YOURSELF Off the Hook! (😱)

  Once You have TRULY Forgiven Someone….

                WIPE THE SLATE CLEAN 

Release ALL Expectations,  Let Everyone Off the Hook, Treat People as a Blank Slate….

Over and Over AGAIN.  Expect ONLY the Best from Them REGARDLESS of What They Have Done in the Past.   

                            Because 

   What You Focus On...You Create MORE Of